Parents now a days shower their children with materialistic gifts. They get the latest toys, designer wear and even tickets to watch their favorite cartoon characters. Some children even have their own iPads (even I don’t have one!!!!).
But if you could only give ONE gift to your child that will last him/her a life-time, what would it be? What is that ONE gift that will remain with your child when you are both not around anymore? What would it be then?
As loving parents, you have done much good, alongside “mistakes” you never intended to commit. Your little ones sees you, their parents, as their everything. Their whole world revolves around you, their parents. How many of you have uttered such heart-shattering statements, in a moment of stress, like “How could you be so clumsy!?” or “Why can’t you be as smart as your sister!?” It might be something innocent that we don’t really mean, but to the child, it does mean a lot.
Before you step in any deeper into causing harm to your child, STOP! Never say any negative things to your child. It might seem harmless or it could be a sort of a joke, but the filtering system of a child is not that strong yet and they might just take that comment literally.
Take this analogy. When we purchase a computer, it comes complete with an instruction manual with all the Do’s and Don’ts. However, little babies come as they are. Many new parents are not lucky enough to have extended family members to lend a helping hand. Many practically go into parenthood with the least idea of what to expect! How then can these parents give their best to the precious little bundles of joy?
Sleep Talk™ for Children is a very powerful process of positive parenting. It was developed by Joane Goulding of the Goulding Institute in Melbourne, Australia. It works by imputing positive messages to the subconscious mind of a child which will give him/ her confidence to face the world. The process helps with many childhood issues such as separation anxiety, bed-wetting, habits, behaviour issues, speech, just to name a few This procedure can also be used for children without any issues. It just takes two minutes every night to give positive suggestions to your sleeping child.
Think about it, what children says, or the way they act, are learned behaviors. Who do they learn from? Their So when you hear people say, never argue in front of your children, it is true! Children’s minds are like sponges, they absorb everything!
Spending time with your children is important. Take them out to the parks, go fishing with them, help them bake cookies or even go for art classes together. Remember that what you invest in your children today will have a lasting effect on them forever. Spending quality time with them and letting them know how you feel is just as important.
With The Goulding Process – Sleep Talk™ for Children, we will be able to give to our children, the happiness and confidence to face the daily challenges when we are not there to “protect” them.